Here are some suggestions for sensible, sustainable gift buying that won’t lead to bulging closets and clogged attics. After all, while we work on reducing clutter in our own homes, it’s only fair that we avoid cluttering up other people’s homes too, right? Do yourself and your loved ones a favor by opting for a clutter free gift. Here’s how:

• Steer clear of material gifts. Consider presents which are consumables, services, charitable contributions, memberships, or those which involve your time and friendship rather than material stuff that folks don’t likely need. Don’t we all have too much junk already?
• Create memories, not junk! The greatest gift you can give someone is the time you spend with them. Generate lasting memories by doing things together. Making plans which include talking, eating and/or walking is always a good start.
• Beware of gift cards. Giving a gift card to a chain retail store seems a bit better than a material gift; however, these are not the necessarily the best choice either. Think of it this way: often people feel obligated to pick something out at a store – not necessarily because they need it but because they have a gift card in their wallet which someone gave them. Unnecessary spending is exactly what leads to clutter! However, if you must give a gift card, choose one from a local, independent store so that the money stays in the community.
• Buy local. If you must buy stuff, shop locally. One of the best place to find unique, handmade/homegrown gifts is your local farmer’s market!

Some favorite clutter-free gift ideas:

1. One-year gift membership to Consumer Reports or Angie’s List. Both are useful and promote responsible consumer choices – gifts which keep on giving!
2. Donate to a charity in honor of someone. So many hard-working organizations need your money way more than your relatives and friends need more junk! You’ll feel good about it, and so will the recipient.
3. Passes or a membership to a museum in the recipient’s home town. This is a great gift for children.
4. Theater or concert tickets. Awesome!
5. Shopping for a busy mom? Get her a spa or massage gift certificate.
6. Lessons or classes. Give the gift of cooking or pottery classes, or salsa dance lessons! Even better: take the class with them!
7. Photos. Most people, especially family members, love receiving current photos of you and your loved ones. Studios in shopping malls and department stores (like JCPenney and Sears) offer quick, inexpensive photo shoots with lots of photo ordering options. Pair it with a nice frame, and you’ve got a one-of-a-kind gift that is truly meaningful.

Have additional thoughts or ideas to share? Leave a comment, or write to Crystal and let her know!

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It’s a smart idea to organize your clothing closet at least twice yearly. Haven’t done it in a while? Set a date to organize your closet this fall!

I’ve just narrowed down my own closet to only high quality pieces that serve me well on a regular basis (i.e., I wear them a lot) and/or I treasure with all my heart. This has left me with 4 shirts, 5 blouses, 4 sweaters, 2 jeans, 2 slacks and 4 dresses. A sleeker, simpler wardrobe which I like so much more than my previous closet full of stuff that made me go “meh”.

If you’re stumped on where to begin or need some inspiration, here’s how I recommend getting started:

1. Gather three boxes, bins or bags, and label them “Donate”, “Consign” and “Trash/repurpose”.
2. Ready, set, go! You’re gonna have to make some tough decisions. Enlist a buddy if it would be helpful!
3. Retire the old. Is anything stained or completely worn out? Remove these items from the closet.
4. Be honest about what fits you. If it doesn’t fit you now, and it hasn’t fit you for the past calendar year, it probably never will. It’s time to let it go!
5. Examine what you wear most frequently in terms of style, versatility, comfort and fit. After all, there’s a good reason that your favorite pair of pants are your favorites! The more you learn about your own likes and dislikes, the better you’ll become at shopping effectively for yourself next time. Be ruthless: If you haven’t worn something in the past calendar year, you’re NOT going to!
6. Get seasonal. Box up summertime clothing such as shorts, sun dresses and swim suits. Clearly label those boxes, and store them in an accessible area of the attic, basement or garage so you can pull them out again next spring.
7. Consign your nicer items to a consignment shop. Bring clean, seasonally appropriate pieces which are in good condition. (Call first to find out whether you need an appointment.) Consigning will leave you with a bit of extra cash, or store credit so you can add some new oomph to your wardrobe.
8. Donate the rest of your gently worn (still wearable) clothes to your local donation center, thrift store or homeless shelter.
9. Repurpose any items that are longer wearable. For example, old socks make great chew toys for dogs and t-shirts can become cleaning rags!
10. Tidy up. Store properly the clothes you intend to keep! Neatly fold and stack your knit and casual wear. Dressier items like slacks and blouses should be ironed and hung up. Facing clothing the same way and hanging them on quality, matching hangers will create a sense of uniformity and order.

Enjoy your newly organized wardrobe!

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Why shop locally?

By choosing to shop at locally-owned, independent stores rather than chain stores and large national corporations, we are directly helping to grow our local economy and enrich our community. 

More great reasons to shop locally can be found in this article: “Why I Try Really Hard to Shop Locally”. You can also read up on the local independent shopping movement in Durham at Sustainabull.

How to shop locally in Durham, North Carolina

Durhamites can consider these local shopping alternatives, listed by category:

Clothing

• Host a clothing swap for your friends. It’s free, and everyone gets great stuff!
• Shop at local thrift stores whenever possible. Proceeds usually benefit the local community, and thrift shopping does not encourage production of more new products. Pennies for Change is one of my favorites!
• Fifi’s Fine Resale — a consignment store on Main St. — is amazing and delightful.
• Check out Durham’s lovely clothing boutique culture – particularly those on 9th St., Main St and in the Brightleaf Shopping Center (Some of Crystal’s favorites are Magpie, Vert & Vogue and Vaguely Reminiscent.)

Gifts

• Parker & Otis (S. Duke St. near Brightleaf Square)
• Vaguely Reminiscent on 9th St.
• Morgan Imports at Brightleaf Square
• Dolly’s Vintage on Main St.
• Ox & Rabbit on 9th St. (they do amazing gift wrapping)
• For gift ideas, see also Crystal’s Guide to Clutter-Free Gift Giving.

Shoes

• Before you buy new, consider repairing your old ones at a shoe repair store like 1-2 Shoe Renew.
• Vaguely Reminiscent on 9th St.
• Morgan Imports at Brightleaf Square (They have Tom’s.)
• Cozy on 9th St.

Sporting Goods

• Bull City Running (Hwy 54/I-40 in South Durham)
• 9th St. Active Feet (Iredell St.)
• Omega Sports (15/501 location or Renaissance Pkwy location) A North Carolina-wide chain.

Wine/Beer

• Sam’s Quick Stop (Erwin Rd.)
• Wine Authorities (University Dr.)
• FullSteam Brewery (Rigsbee St.)
• Parker & Otis (S. Duke St. near Brightleaf Square)

Shipping and mailing

• A-1 Stop Mail Shoppe (9th St.) Very quirky but super friendly little place. I support these guys 100% because I get personal service and lots of friendly conversation whenever I go.

Photocopies and printing services

• Spee Dee Que Instant Printing (E. Chapel Hill St./Foster St.) This is a very “Durham” sort of place (i.e., messy, homegrown, old school..) but they care deeply about the work they do, and there’s a Chihuahua. Also it is a thousand times better than going to Kinko’s.

Auto supplies

• United Auto Parts (Broad St.)

Groceries

• Durham Farmers’ Market Open all year!
• TROSA Grocery Store (Angier Ave)
• Coming soon —> Durham Central Market! (N. Mangum St)
• Coming soon —> Bull City Urban Market (Taylor St near Goldenbelt)

Books

• Durham County Library system and their amazing annual book sales!
• The Regulator Bookshop (9th St.) New and used books.
• Nice Price Books (Broad St.) Used books
• Books Do Furnish a Room (Markham/Broad) Used books, comics and CDs
• Northgate Books (Northgate Mall) Used and rare books.

Music

Hardware and building materials

Skip Lowe’s and Home Depot! Opt instead for:

• Public Hardware (N. Mangum St) Durham’s oldest hardware store!
• Habitat for Humanity ReStore (15/501)

Furniture

• Thrift stores, yard sales and flea markets!
• Craigslist
• TROSA Furniture (Foster St.) We consistently find great stuff at TROSA Furniture. They deliver too!
• Morgan Imports (Gregson St. near Brightleaf Square)

Pharmacy/medicine

• Main St. Pharmacy on Main St.
• Gurley’s Pharmacy on Main St.

Pet supplies

• Barnes Supply Co. on 9th St.

Office supplies

• Not Just Paper on Main St. This is another one of those very “Durham” sorts of place (i.e., messy, homegrown, old school…) but they care deeply about what they do, and it’s super fun to shop here. I discover new things every time.

Games

• Sci-Fi Genre (Old Chapel Hill Rd) Board games, role playing games, comic books and much more. They will special order you anything you can’t find in their store.

Garden supplies

• Stone Bros. on corner of Geer/Washington St. These are the friendliest people who are incredibly helpful with gardening tips! They have full service customer service, including the standard practice of carrying/wheeling all your purchases out to your car for you.
• Barnes Supply Co. on 9th St.

Coffee

Rather than Starbucks or Dunkin’ Donuts, you might choose one of these favorite local coffee shops:

• Bean Traders (9th St. and Hwy 54/I-40)
• Scratch (Orange St.) They carry lovely Counter Culture coffee, roasted locally — not to mention the best pastries in the Triangle.
• Rue Cler (Chapel Hill Blvd)
• Blue Coffee Cafe (Corcoran St.)
• Joe Van Gogh (Broad St.) Certified organic coffee roaster.
• Beyu Caffe (Main St.)

If you know of any other great local business alternatives you think Durham should know about, please drop Crystal a line!!

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BEFORE

AFTER!

I ordered an inexpensive hand-crafted wooden jewelry rack from Etsy. It was easy to mount on the wall, and in 10 minutes I went from a tangly jewelry mess to a neat display.

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1. Clear the clutter (10 minutes). Grab hold of a laundry basket and “swoop” energetically around the house for 5 minutes, picking up everything that doesn’t belong. Now recirculate around the house one more time (5 additional minutes), delivering all the items in the hamper where they’re supposed to go. The key is not to stop to ponder things and/or get sidetracked!
2. Wipe down all surfaces (10 minutes). With a soft damp rag, quickly wipe down any non-wood surfaces like counters and tables. Got grime? Use a spray bottle filled with 1/2 water, 1/2 distilled white vinegar. For wood surfaces, use a feather duster or a soft rag and a wood-friendly cleaner such as Pledge.
3. Make the bathroom mirrors and toilets sparkle (10 minutes). A spray bottle filled with 1/2 water, 1/2 vinegar and some paper towels will work wonders on the mirrors. Use full strength vinegar and a toilet brush to make your bowls shine. Lastly, wipe down the lid and rims with paper towels and half vinegar solution. Don’t worry – once the surfaces are dry, the vinegar smell will disappear and be replaced with a fresh, clean scent!
4. Give the floors a quick sweep and/or run the vacuum (5-7 minutes). Pay attention only to the dirtiest areas! Don’t bother with the rooms they’re not likely to see. Dimming the lights is going to help hide the dirt anyway.
   
5. Use flowers to your advantage! (5-7 minutes). Guests are less likely to notice clutter if you’ve got flowers to distract them. One bouquet of flowers goes a long way to make the place feel fresh and classy. Place one or two stems in each bud vase (or whatever you’ve got) in bathrooms, dining room, living room and kitchen. Tip: A single type of flower makes the biggest impact.
6. Finally, dim the lights, light the candles, and flip on the music (2 minutes). Scented candles are fine for the bathroom and living room, but keep them out of the kitchen and dining room. The perfume-y aroma can ruin your guests’ appetites.

Now don’t worry too much. If your friends really love you, they won’t care about mess or dust anyway. Good luck, and happy holidays!

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Click HERE to see slides from this talk, called “Organizing Your Home”.

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• Go barefoot. We vent a great deal of heat through our feet.
• Turn off the lights. Overhead lights actually do generate a bit of heat, while darkness gives you the perception of coolness.
• Use a handfan. Buy it cheap or make one yourself. Don’t underestimate the power of moving air across your sweaty self. As you know, sweat cools us down when it evaporates!
• Spend time at the public library. They have air conditioning you already pay taxes for, and you can share the cool air with your community while reading a book!
• Sit on the porch sippin’ iced tea. Be sure you’re sitting on the side of the house that doesn’t get the sun at that time of day. Add some crushed mint leaves to your brew for extra coolness.
• Take a quick cold shower right before you go to bed. This can temporarily lower your body temperature a degree or two.
• Use Gold Bond Medicated Powder. I learned this from a buddy of mine in the Peace Corps when we were all living on the equator in Africa. When all else fails, strip down to your underwear, sprinkle on some Gold Bond in all your hot places, and lie down in front of an electric fan. The icy tingle of the powder combined with the breeze will make you think you’re getting air conditioned!

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Making key copies takes just one quick trip to the hardware store and could save you a ton of problems down the road. (This I can tell you from experience!)

• Make at least two copies of your house key and one of each of your car keys. Any hardware store should be able to do this for you. Be sure to test them out as soon as you get home.
• Clearly label these extra keys.
• Put one extra house key in your car and one extra car key in your house. Store keys in one consistent location so you’ll always find them when you need them.
• Consider giving a key to neighbors and friends as backup.

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Here they are:

1. Reusable shopping bags and a basket for the farmers’ market
2. Shoes and socks for impromptu walks before/after work when it’s cooler
3. Picnic blanket
4. Big straw sun hat
5. Rain poncho

Got too much junk in your trunk? Here’s how to organize your car.

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• Eliminating as many of my subscriptions and memberships as I can.
• Emptying my calendar of obligations that don’t fulfill me or my family.
• Curbing our addiction to material possessions (<—- click for article)
• Filling my life with fresh air, exercise and friends rather than new stuff.
• Being grateful every day for something, even if infinitesimally small.

Readers, what does simplifying mean to you? Post a comment, or write to Crystal and let her know.

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